Archive for August, 2009

Elvis, Judy, and Michael

By Timothy D. Holder

 My wife and I recently toured a guy’s personal Wizard of Oz museum.  It was filled with memorabilia from the movie/book.  The man who conducted the tour was an expert on all things Oz, it seemed, including the star, Judy Garland.  A few nights later, I saw part of a documentary comparing Michael Jackson and Elvis Presley.  Interestingly, these three people had a lot in common.  They were incredibly talented performers who made a bunch of money.  They were beloved by millions.  They could travel anywhere they wanted, and they could meet whomever they pleased.  How many millions of people would have traded places with them if it was at all possible?

And yet all three of them were incredibly unhappy.

No matter how many people cheered for these superstars, no matter how many things they bought themselves, no matter how many of their desires were fulfilled, they never seemed to have peace.

The things so many of us strive for—recognition, money, influence—didn’t satisfy these three individuals.  Most of us never realize the pointlessness of possessing these things as ends unto themselves because we spend our whole lives vainly pursuing them.  If I make money, and I’m still not satisfied then I must need more money.  That’s how our thinking goes.  But as our three superstars have shown us, the attainment of these things doesn’t guarantee a happy ending.

God didn’t create us to have our emptiness filled with things.  Ultimately, our emptiness can only be filled by Him.

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Are You Angry?

By Timothy D. Holder

Are you angry about something?  There’s a lot of that going around.  Maybe you’ve been wronged by your boss/dad/mom/brother/friend/enemy/co-worker/professor/love of your life.  Maybe you’re frustrated because life isn’t turning out the way you want.  Maybe you’re upset because someone you know seems to be much better off and he/she doesn’t work as hard as you and doesn’t appreciate his/her circumstances as much.

Wouldn’t it be cool if I could give you a formula to prevent circumstances and people from ever making you mad again?  It’s too bad I can’t do that.

I could talk to you about how unproductive and even how physically unhealthy it is to have a lot of anger in your life.  But, you know, if you really have a problem with anger—and if you’re still reading this, either you might or you’re my Mom (hi Mom!)—anyway, if you really have a problem with anger, you don’t need more advice; you need more Jesus.

Does that sound judgmental?  Sorry, but I don’t see any way around this.  If we believe in God, if we accept that Jesus died to pay the price for our sins, if we have embraced Christianity and been filled with the Spirit of God, then we should be different people.  Under such circumstances I am supposed to die to the way I would normally handle life’s frustrations.

If I’m going through life angry a lot of the time, maybe the answer is to go to God in prayer more often and spend more time reading what God wants me to know in the Bible.  Wait a minute, read the last sentence again and cross out the word “maybe.”