I heard a couple of interesting things about prayer recently. One related to form; the other related to expectations.
During a worship service, I heard a wise man speak about prayer. After a followup dialogue on the subject, he left me with this acronym—FACTS. Faith, Adoration, Confession, Thanksgiving, and Supplication. It provides a nice format for praying. One difficulty people have with prayer is in knowing what to say. How can you talk with Someone who knows everything? This acronym gives you a good format for doing that. You start by putting your faith in God’s Word. It’s not just about us talking to God, but also listening to what He has to say to us. This is followed by praising God for His greatness, then confessing where you have fallen short, next you praise God for all of the good things in your life, and finally you make requests regarding others and yourself. Nice.
After the service I went to Sunday school (or my “connect group” as we are calling it now) and heard something else that I thought was good. In order for God to intervene in our lives in response to our prayers, (1.) God must be able to intervene. (2.) God must be willing to intervene. (3.) We must have faith that God answers the prayers not just of other people, but prayers of ours, too.
I would also add a fourth thing—our request must not be contrary to God’s will.
It’s easy to say we believe that God is all powerful and all loving, but do we truly believe that He answers the prayers of people like us? For some, that is the biggest challenge. Maybe it helps to remember that prayer is never about our worthiness—it’s about His love and mercy.
Pray. A lot.


